Hi Steve,
I definitely sense that silence brings us closer to experiencing true reality. It seems that many indigenous cultures (from the past) talk much less than we do. They feel comfortable with sharing silence – we need to organize retreats for that. 😉 When they do speak, it is not necessarily their individual thoughts they express but rather the shared ideas of the group they give voice. Very beautiful accounts about this in Robert Wolff’s Original Wisdom.
On a personal note, I often prefer silence to words when spending time with someone, but some seem to find it unsettling.