Reply To: Psychotherapy with LH patients

  • Don Salmon

    Member
    June 20, 2023 at 10:59 am

    Thanks so much Mike. That’s a very useful phrase to use when talking to people about the distinction:

    Mind wondering

    vs

    mind wandering

    Nice!

    This distinction is one of the main themes of our online courses on effortless sleep and effortless mindfulness.

    In the terms we use, mind wandering occurs when our attention is in “control mode” (trying to manipulate, control, manage experience) and mind wondering occurs when our attention is in “experiential mode” – just being here, or as we say, “remembering to be.”

    I think you’d enjoy the 2nd video on our home page, which is all about this distinction: http://www.RememberToBe.Life.

    Our theme song lyrics: (the “shift” referred to in the chorus IS that shift from control to experiential mode)

    VERSES:

    whatever the place you’re in

    whatever you feel

    whatever is going on

    remember to be

    let go of the future

    let go of the past

    set all your concerns aside

    remember to be

    (CHORUS)

    no matter the grief or pain

    we still can be free

    with just the most gentle shift

    remember to be

    VERSES:

    whenever the silence blooms

    the heart can breathe free

    the chains on our wings are broke’

    just ‘memberin’ to be

    let go of the future

    let go of the past

    set all your concerns aside

    remember to be

    (CHORUS)

    No matter the grief or pain

    we still can be free

    with just the most gentle shift

    remember to be